Showing posts with label spiritual companion. Show all posts
Showing posts with label spiritual companion. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 22, 2025

When the Path Diverges: Endings in Spiritual Direction

When the Path Diverges: Endings in Spiritual Tending

Endings are a natural part of all relationships, including spiritual direction work. Still, they can be emotionally and spiritually tender—especially when they happen suddenly or without acknowledgment. Whether a spiritual tendinf relationship spans three sessions or three years, how we conclude the journey matters.

Why Endings Matter

Spiritual care isn’t a haircut or a massage. While it might be fine to silently stop scheduling hair appointments, this "fade-away" approach is not ideal for deep, sacred relationships. (Perhaps we could have a conversation about disappearing on hairdressers as well?) A spiritual care relationship touches on a person’s heart, growth, and sacred story. It deserves a thoughtful farewell.

And yet, unexplained disappearances happen, even in spiritual tending.

People stop replying. They don’t schedule again. They disappear, perhaps without even meaning to. Life gets busy. Emotional discomfort arises. Some feel awkward naming a need to pause or move on. If this has happened to you as a companion, you're not alone. If you’ve no-showed/no-called a spiritual companion yourself, know that many of us have at some point, and it’s never too late to reach out with a thank-you or a simple goodbye.

The truth is, endings are often vulnerable. They ask us to acknowledge change. They require us to let go. But when handled with care, they can be as meaningful as any other part of the journey.

Setting Expectations Early

One of the best ways to support good endings is to talk about them at the beginning. I often let seekers know:

  • You are free to end at any time. This is your journey, and I honor your discernment.

  • When possible, let’s name an ending together. Even a brief email or single final session helps bring a sense of completeness.

  • I will not take your need to stop personally. Seasons change. Life shifts. People grow and need different support. That’s normal.

You might also name your own rhythm of checking in: “If I haven’t heard from you in three months, I’ll send a gentle note to see where things stand. No pressure—just presence.”

Different Ways to End

Not every ending looks the same. Here are a few possibilities:

  • A closing session. Sometimes a seeker knows it’s time to pause or move on and names this during a regular session. Together, you might spend that time harvesting the fruits of the journey.

  • An email or message. If a final session isn’t possible, a note of thanks and farewell can still offer closure.

  • A ritualized goodbye. Whether short or elaborate, ritual can honor the sacredness of the relationship and bless what’s next.

  • Time-limited agreements. Some spiritual care relationships are set up for a season—a 6-month program, a year-long container, or a sabbatical accompaniment. When that’s the case, you can build reflection and closure into the final session from the start.

None of these are required, but each offers an opportunity for mutual blessing.

An Intentional Ritual to Close the Circle

When seekers are open to it, I offer the following “Ritual of Looking Back, Looking Forward.” It’s designed for two people to do together via teleconference and helps mark the end of our time with meaning and grace.


Ritual of Looking Back, Looking Forward (for Two, via teleconference or in person)

To conclude a spiritual tending relationship.
Materials: One central candle, one candle for each person (companion and seeker), matches or lighter, and a fire-safe surface.

  1. Before the appointment: Each person sets up their candle and fire-safe surface. Lights are dimmed to create a contemplative space.

  2. Opening words:
    Companion says:
    “Welcome, [Seeker’s Name]. As our time together comes to a close, we gather virtually to acknowledge the journey we’ve shared and to bless the paths that lie ahead. This central candle, which I will light now, represents the time we’ve spent together…”

  3. Lighting the central candle: The companion lights it and invites silent reflection:
    “What moments stand out for you, [Seeker’s Name]? What have you learned? What gifts have you received from this connection?”

  4. Lighting individual candles: Each person lights their own candle, sharing a word or phrase about what they carry forward.
    “May our individual paths be illuminated with the wisdom and strength we have gained.”

  5. Extinguishing the central candle: The companion gently puts it out, saying:
    “This does not mean the light we shared is gone, but rather that it has been dispersed, carried within each of us…”

  6. Closing blessing and silence.

This simple setting of intentions and naming of consent allows the sacred relationship to be honored—without clinging, and without minimizing its depth.


If You’ve Been "Ghosted"…

It’s okay to feel sadness or confusion. Try not to assume ill intent. You might send a brief note like:

“Dear [Name],
I’ve noticed we haven’t connected in a while. If this marks the end of our companioning relationship, I want to say thank you for the time we shared. If you'd like to meet for a brief closing session, I’d be honored. In any case, may your path continue to be rich and spirit-filled.”

Even without a reply, you’ve modeled spaciousness, kindness, and healthy boundaries.

If You Need to End as the Companion

Sometimes you may feel a need to conclude the relationship—due to scope of practice, time constraints, personal limits, or misalignment. These conversations can be awkward but are often received with gratitude when offered gently and clearly. You might say:

“I want to honor the journey we've shared. I'm noticing that what you're seeking may be better supported by someone with a different focus. I'd be glad to help you find the right next companion, if you wish.”

Ending with care is part of ethical spiritual companionship. We can model what it looks like to say goodbye with respect and presence.


Try It

  • If you're a seeker, consider how you want to bring closure when you sense a companioning relationship is complete. What would help you mark the transition?

  • If you're a companion, create a few templates or rituals you can offer. Include a note about endings in your welcome packet.

  • Reflect on past goodbyes in your own life. What made them feel meaningful—or not?


Every path has its thresholds. Every threshold offers a choice: to move back, or to move through with awareness. 

Beloved, you are whole, holy, and worthy. May your endings be as sacred as your beginnings.

With warmth,
Amy


For Further Exploration

• Finley, James. The Healing Path – Offers profound reflections on spiritual journeying, including what it means to release and let go.
https://jamesfinley.org/the-healing-path

• Spiritual Directors International – Offers guidelines and reflections on ethical companionship, including the importance of mutuality and closure.
https://www.sdicompanions.org

• Piver, Susan. The Four Noble Truths of Love – Though about relationships, this book offers tools for navigating the discomfort of endings with honesty and heart.
https://susanpiver.com/books

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Friday, February 28, 2025

The Heart of Spiritual Direction - Spirit Tending

The Heart of Sacred Tending

Spiritual direction is a space of deep listening, a relationship where one person (the spiritual companion) holds space for another (the seeker, guest, directee, or explorer) to attend to their understanding of the sacred—whether that be God(s), divine love, the 'most important,' the universe, or ‘the interconnectedness that calls us to our better selves.’ Some describe it as soul friendship, a place for discernment, or a spiritual practice in itself. It is a garden tended by two, where the soul blossoms, or a still pool where the reflection of the divine is sought.

Like any relationship, the seeker’s connection to the sacred shifts over time. There are seasons of intimacy and distance, certainty and doubt, joy and longing. A spiritual companion does not take the role of teacher or authority but serves as a witness, a mirror, and a gentle guide, helping the explorer notice how the sacred is moving in their life.

In spirit tending, the seeker explores their sacred identity—their belovedness. The companion holds space with compassion, allowing the seeker’s own wisdom to emerge.

Algarve Sunset, photo by Amy Beltaine

The Many Roots of Spiritual Direction Work

This work is ancient. People have sought spiritual counsel—from the desert mothers and fathers of the desert to the rabbis before that and elders througout the world who have guided seekers before them. 

Spirit tending is not confined to any one tradition. The Sufi practice of sohbet, where a master shares wisdom through stories and parables, the Indigenous wisdom-sharing traditions of the Americas, and many other cultural and spiritual contexts hold space for seekers to deepen their relationship with the sacred. In Christianity, we find examples in the wisdom traditions of Teresa of Avila and John of the Cross, the discernment practices of Ignatian spirituality, and the Celtic Anam Cara (soul friend). Jewish spiritual guidance appears in the traditions of the Hasidic rebbe and the chevruta study partnerships. Buddhist traditions offer deep listening and presence through kalyana mitta (spiritual friends) 

Across traditions, the essence of this work is companionship—a sacred presence that holds space for seekers to listen to their own inner knowing. While contemporary spirit tending has seen renewed interest, it remains deeply rooted in a lineage of sacred accompaniment.

What Spiritual Direction Is—And Is Not

Spirit tending is deeply formative, yet it is not formation in the structured sense of training or instruction. It does not mold a seeker into a predetermined shape but helps them discern their own unfolding path. It is not therapy, coaching, or pastoral care, though it may sometimes overlap with or augment these fields. It is not about providing answers, prescribing beliefs, or fixing problems. Instead, it is a process of accompaniment, helping seekers name their experiences, wrestle with questions, and recognize the presence of the sacred in their lives.

Spirit tending is not a program of instruction, nor is it designed to produce a particular outcome. Instead, it is a space of sacred listening, where an explorer can nurture their relationship with the divine without pressure to “arrive” anywhere in particular.

Sandpiper Beach, Oregon, photo by Hawthorne Post

What Spiritual Companionship Is

  • A place of deep listening where the seeker’s experiences are honored.
  • A space to reflect on how the sacred is present in daily life.
  • A relationship of mutual respect, grounded in trust and confidentiality.
  • A journey that belongs to the explorer, with the companion as a witness.
  • A practice that supports discernment and meaning-making.
  • A space for deep self-reflection.
  • Support in navigating spiritual transitions.
  • A place of connection and belonging.
  • A way of tending to the soul, much like tending to a garden.

What Spiritual Companionship Is Not

  • Therapy, counseling, or problem-solving nor a mental health intervention (though it may complement therapy)
  • Religious instruction or conversion nor a theological debate or catechesis
  • A place where the companion has all the answers.
  • A quick fix or a one-time session.
  • A space where the sacred is defined for the seeker.
  • Advice-giving or problem-solving
  • A place to be told what to believe

Margaret Guenther describes spiritual direction as midwifery—helping bring forth what is already stirring within the seeker. Alan Jones similarly calls it soul midwifery, an act of accompanying seekers as they birth new understanding, transformation, or ways of being in relationship with the sacred. It is a work of deep trust, of honoring mystery, of attending to what longs to be born.

What Spiritual Companions Do Not Offer

Because spirit tending is deeply personal and varied, it is sometimes mistaken for other kinds of helping relationships. While there are similarities, spiritual direction is not:

Counseling or therapy – A therapist helps a client work through psychological issues, often focusing on healing past wounds. A spiritual companion, while they may be aware of trauma-informed practices, does not diagnose or treat psychological conditions.

Pastoral care – A pastor offers care within a specific religious framework, often providing guidance rooted in their tradition’s teachings. A spiritual companion, in contrast, does not impose beliefs but helps seekers explore their own.

Life coaching – A coach works toward specific goals, helping a client strategize and achieve outcomes. Spiritual direction is not about setting benchmarks but about deepening awareness.

Moon in Turkey

The Seeker’s Journey

Each explorer comes to spirit tending with their own longings. Some arrive in seasons of transition, seeking clarity about their next steps. Others bring mystical experiences they cannot explain, moments of spiritual awakening that have left them wondering how to integrate them into daily life. Some are healing from wounds inflicted by religious communities, while others simply want a space to tend to their spiritual life in an intentional way.

Seekers often experience transformation and growth through spiritual direction.

As James Finley reflects, the core question in spirit tending is not “Who am I?” but rather: "Can I join the divine in knowing who the divine knows I am?" This question guides the seeker’s journey, inviting them to trust their sacred identity and deep belonging.

A good spiritual companion does not force a particular path but follows the seeker’s lead. Some seekers want a spiritual companion who shares their tradition, while others seek a companion outside their faith to gain fresh perspectives. Some desire silence and contemplation, while others process best through storytelling or creative expression.

Whatever the explorer's background, spirit tending honors their agency. It is an invitation, not an imposition—a practice of co-discerning rather than dictating. The companion creates a place of radical hospitality where they are the host and the explorer is the guest. In this safer space the guest is invited to explore and discover what is true, real, and possible. 

The Companion's Ethos and Preparation

At the center of spiritual direction lies a profound commitment to certain core values, an ethos that guides the companion's every interaction. These principles create the fertile ground where the seeker's journey can unfold with grace and authenticity.

  • Compassion: A spiritual companion recognizes the inherent vulnerability and courage it takes to explore one's inner landscape. 
  • Non-Judgment: The companion cultivates a space of radical acceptance, free from judgment or evaluation. They understand that the guest's experiences, beliefs, and doubts are all worthy of exploration.
  • Deep Listening: This is the cornerstone of spirit tending. The companion attends to the seeker's words, silences, and unspoken emotions. They sense the movements of the sacred and the deeper truths that lie beneath the surface.
  • Presence: The companion offers their full, undivided attention to the explorer, witnessing and honoring the explorer's journey and acknowledging their inherent worthiness.
  • Humility: The companion recognizes that they are not the expert on the guest's spiritual path. They approach each session with humility, acknowledging the mystery of the human experience and the limitations of their own understanding.
  • Confidentiality: The companion upholds strict confidentiality, creating a safe and trustworthy space for the seeker to share their deepest thoughts and feelings. This commitment to confidentiality is crucial for establishing trust and promoting a sense of security.
  • Respect for Autonomy: The companion honors consent, recognizing that the journey belongs to the explorer. They refrain from imposing their own beliefs or agendas, allowing the seeker to explore their own path at their own pace.

These core values form the foundation of the spiritual companion's work, creating a sacred space where the seeker can explore their relationship with the divine and discover the depths of their own inner wisdom.

In preparation for creating the sacred space for spiritual direction work, the companion will: 

  • Engage faithfully in their own spiritual practices.
  • Participate in self-reflection and supervision.
  • Beyond their original certification training, continually seek out opportunities for learning and personal growth.
  • Maintain healthy boundaries.
  • Join a professional organization with ethical standards.

Holding Space for Mystery

Unlike many relationships where we expect expertise or answers, spiritual direction thrives in the unknown. It welcomes doubt, wrestles with paradox, and sits with questions that have no easy resolution. A spiritual companion does not have to know the seeker’s path in advance. They are there to travel alongside them, trusting that the seeker’s deep wisdom—and their relationship with the sacred—will reveal the way forward. Taking an attitude of honoring what unfolds allows mystery to enter, supported by deep trust in the seeker's inner wisdom and the sacred.

Spirit tending also affirms the reality of both physical and spiritual perception. We engage the world not only through what we can see, hear, and touch, but also through intuitive knowing. Spirit tending helps explorers listen to the unseen movements of the sacred, the language of soul that is often dismissed or ignored.

In a world that often demands certainty, spiritual direction work offers something different: a sacred pause, a listening ear, and the radical trust that each person’s journey with the divine is unfolding in its own time.

What Happens in Spiritual Companioning?

A spiritual companioning session might involve unhurried silence, storytelling, deep questions such as “Where have you felt the presence of the sacred in your life?” or “When have you felt most alive?”, or moments of prayer or meditation, depending on the seeker’s background and needs. Some seekers come with clear spiritual questions and a need for support in discernment; others bring a need to make meaning out of lived experience; still others a longing that has no name. 

The companion may respond by summarizing key themes, offering gentle reflections, mirroring emotions, suggesting practices for exploration, or simply holding silence as the seeker processes their insights. A companion listens, reflects, and holds space, allowing the seeker to explore their own wisdom.

Portland Zoo, photo by Hawthorne Post

The Gifts of Spiritual Direction

The work of spirit tending with a companion, offers many gifts:

  • increased peace and clarity
  • a sense of belonging
  • expanded self-awareness
  • a deeper connection to the sacred
  • increased ethical clarity
  • development of resources to turn to in times of spiritual desolation
  • a greater sense of meaning and purpose

Final Thoughts

The sacred often speaks in subtle ways, through dreams, intuition, or the quiet unfolding of life events. A companion helps the explorer recognize these moments and deepen their engagement with them. Spiritual direction is not about finding the “right” way to be spiritual—it is about discovering and deepening a relationship with the sacred, however the seeker understands it. It is a practice of love, of presence, and of accompaniment on the winding paths of the soul.

In this sacred dance of presence and listening, both companion and seeker are shaped by the journey, deepening their connection to the sacred and to themselves—like a garden where both hands in the soil are nourished by its richness.

And in that, it is its own kind of sacred encounter.

You are whole, holy, and worthy,
Rev. Amy
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To find a Spiritual Companion, visit http://AmyBeltaine.info or https://shorturl.at/pr0ue or http://UUSDN.org 

Free student-led spiritual companioning starting March 2026, March 2027, https://abeltaine.blogspot.com/2025/01/embark-on-spiritual-journey-with-free.html

Wednesday, February 19, 2025

Finding the Right Spiritual Companion: Safety, Trust, and Nourishment

Finding the Right Spiritual Companion: Who Do I Trust to Tend My Spirit

When we open ourselves to deep spiritual work, we are entrusting tender parts of our souls to another person. That’s no small thing. And in a perfect world, we could do so without hesitation, knowing we would be met with wisdom, care, and integrity. But we live in this world, where people can hold very different values, or be unskilled, or careless. If you have hesitations about beginning spiritual direction, they are not only understandable – they are wise.

That doesn’t mean you have to navigate the struggle and chaos alone. It means you deserve to be discerning.

Sunfish on the Potomac, MrTimMD CC2.0

So how do you find a companion who will truly nourish and support you? How do you ensure that you are safe while also receiving the care you long for? Here are some ways to honor both your wisdom and your spiritual hunger:

1. Take Your Time (and Meet More Than One Person)

Many seekers feel pressured to commit too quickly, especially if they’re eager for support. But a wise match is more important than a fast one. You should expect to meet with two to three potential companions before deciding who feels right. Spiritual direction is deeply personal, and finding the right fit takes time.

Notice how you feel when you meet each person. Do you feel seen and respected? Or do you feel subtly dismissed, talked over, or pushed? The body often knows before the mind does – pay attention.

2. Ask Questions (and Expect Thoughtful Answers)

You have the right to ask about their training, experience, and approach if it’s not already on their website. Ask how they handle difficult situations, ethical concerns, or differences in belief. A trustworthy companion will welcome these questions and answer with transparency. If someone gets defensive or vague, that’s useful information.

You can also check into the ethics of the training program they attended. Many spiritual direction programs have published ethical guidelines – do those align with what feels safe and right to you? A companion’s formation matters, not just in their skills but in the values they were taught to uphold.

3. Know That You Can Say No

Some seekers worry about disappointing a potential companion if they decide not to continue. But spiritual direction is a relationship, not an obligation. A good companion will respect your choice, even if you choose not to continue with them.

4. Ask About Consent (and Expect More Than Words)

A companion may have the best intentions, but do they actively practice consent culture? You can ask directly: How do you invite consent in spiritual direction? A thoughtful companion will have a clear answer – about topics of conversation, types of prayer, and even the pace of the work.

Consent is more than permission; it’s an ongoing practice. If you ever feel pressured –whether to share something personal, try a new exercise, or move faster than feels right – that’s a sign to pause and reassess. A healthy spiritual companion will respect your boundaries without hesitation.

5. Set Boundaries (and Watch How They Respond)

Healthy spiritual direction relationships have clear boundaries. If you ever feel uncomfortable with the level of personal disclosure, the setting, or the expectations, you can and should name that. If the companion reacts with grace and a willingness to adjust, that’s a good sign. If they react with frustration or dismissal, that’s a red flag.

6. Trust Can Grow, But It Shouldn’t Be Forced

You don’t need to trust someone immediately. Trust is built over time, through consistency and care. If you feel hesitant, that doesn’t necessarily mean this isn’t the right companion for you, it might just mean you need more time. A good companion will honor your pace.

7. A Good Companion Celebrates You

Spiritual companionship isn’t just about guidance–it’s about witnessing and honoring who you are. A good companion will recognize your wisdom, affirm your sacred worth, and celebrate both who you are and who you are becoming. If a companion makes you feel small, broken, or unworthy, they are not the right fit for you.

8. You Deserve to Be Nourished

Finally, let’s not lose sight of the heart of this work: you are seeking something real and meaningful. You deserve to be supported in that, not just safely, but with tenderness and wisdom. The right companion won’t just avoid harm–they will actively help you flourish.

You don’t have to navigate this journey alone. But you do get to choose who travels with you.


You are whole, holy, and worthy.

Rev. Amy

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To find a Spiritual Companion, visit http://AmyBeltaine.info or https://shorturl.at/pr0ue or http://UUSDN.org 

Free student-led spiritual companioning starting March 2026, March 2027, https://abeltaine.blogspot.com/2025/01/embark-on-spiritual-journey-with-free.html

This Heart of Spiritual Direction series is ©2025 Amy Beltaine, all rights reserved. You may freely reprint any blog post, website, or print resource. Simply include the following attribution, and if you print online, make the link at the end live:

Article ©2025 Amy Beltaine, all rights reserved. Reprinted with permission. This article and hundreds of others, along with other free resources are available at http://www.AmyBeltaine.info

Sunday, February 09, 2025

Finding Meaning in a Troubled World

Finding Meaning in a Troubled World

The world today feels increasingly fraught with challenges: the rise of fascism, the marginalization of vulnerable groups, the erosion of democratic rights, and the escalating climate crisis. These realities can leave us feeling overwhelmed, anxious, and even hopeless. But amidst the fear and uncertainty, there are ways to find meaning and cultivate resilience.

One such path is through the power of spiritual direction.

Spiritual direction is a journey of deep listening and accompaniment that helps individuals explore their inner lives, deepen their connection to something sacred (whether that be God, nature, community, or a deeper sense of self), and find meaning and purpose in their lives.

In times of societal upheaval, spiritual direction can offer:

  • A space for reflection and processing: It provides a safe and supportive environment to grapple with the complexities of the world, to acknowledge our fears and anxieties, and to find ways to integrate these experiences into our lives.
  • A renewed sense of purpose: By connecting with our deepest values and exploring our callings, we can find ways to contribute to a more just and equitable world.
  • A deeper sense of connection: Spiritual direction can help us cultivate meaningful relationships with ourselves, others, and the world around us, fostering a sense of community and shared responsibility.
Spiritual direction work helps you find your compass and your courage. Now is a great time to refine your ethical convictions and to uncover what is most important to you. What are you willing and able to commit to? How can you love into your most authentic and best self?

How to Get Started:

If you're interested in exploring spiritual direction, I encourage you to check out the resources listed below. I've also included a link to free weekly meditations that I offer.

Artist Misha Tyutyunik, also known as MDot, created the design. Two River, NJ community members painters. Matthew Brys, Photography

Beyond Spiritual Direction:

Spiritual direction is just one way to find meaning and make a difference. Other ways include:

  • Activism: Engaging in various forms of activism to make a meaningful impact on society. You don’t need to do all the things, just do the work that is yours. This can include:
    • Civic Involvement: Participating in activities like voting, running for office, volunteering for campaigns, or joining local committees to influence policy and governance.
    • Protests and Making a Statement: Joining peaceful protests, marches, and demonstrations to advocate for causes related to justice, equality, or environmental protection, raising your voice in solidarity.
    • Organizing and Supporting Groups: Working with or supporting grassroots organizations, unions, and movements that focus on systemic change, especially those led by marginalized groups with experience in activism and social change. These groups often have a strong track record of creating positive impact.
    • Don’t Comply: take a page from the CIA handbook on fighting authoritarian governments by practicing “I don’t think so”, “I can’t help” , and the slow walk. Being incompetent at doing immoral or unlawful things is a virtue.

  • Community BuildingFostering connections with others in your community, finding your spiritual community, and collaborating through mutual aid to create networks of care and uplift. We need everyone to survive. The ann ient teaching is to “love thy neighbor,” so, ask yourself who is my neighbor?
  • Service and Caring for Others: Contributing your time and resources to support others, whether through direct service (e.g., caring for the homeless, mentoring, providing food or shelter) or through advocacy for vulnerable communities. Offer help to those you can help, and ask for help from those who can help you.
  • Create Art and JoyExpress yourself creatively through art, music, dance, or any form of self-expression that brings you joy and contributes to collective well-being.  By creating beauty and celebrating life’s moments, you nurture yourself and others, reinforcing the power of creativity in both personal and collective transformation. As Emma Goldman said, “If I can’t dance I don’t want to be part of your revolution.”
  • Self-CarePrioritizing your own well-being through practices such as mindfulness, meditation, and spending time in nature to recharge and sustain your efforts for long-term change. Ask for help. This is a relay race, not a marathon, and certainly not a sprint.

Remember, you are not alone in this. Many people are deeply concerned about the challenges facing our world and are actively seeking ways to create positive change. By connecting with others, cultivating inner resilience, and taking action, we can work together to build a more just, equitable, and sustainable future.

You are whole, holy, and worthy... We need each one of us to survive,

Rev Amy Beltaine

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To find a Spiritual Companion, visit http://AmyBeltaine.info or https://shorturl.at/pr0ue or http://UUSDN.org 

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