Sunday, November 03, 2024

The First Jack'O Lantern - A Parable for Our Times

 
The story of the first Jack'O Lantern, by Stephen Posch. A parable for our times.


https://youtu.be/GndxOD6SvGo

Our world is feeling fragmented, and especially the USA is feeling like we’ve been driven into the wilderness by the bullies. But:  I know what I’m telling myself next week if Kamala Harris is elected president.  I know what I’m telling myself next week if Donald Trump is elected president.  I know what I’m telling myself next week if we do not yet know who has been elected president.  Because they are all the same thing.

We ask: ‘Help me to help my people. Help me to know what I can do.’

What are we, we who are earth honoring and deities relating, called to do in the world?  What drum must we play? Who are we called to be? What songs must we sing? What can we learn from our ancestors and the story of the universe? Then, we will feed the hungry. We will set the captives free. We will make what meaning we can in the world. Let us shout from the rooftops what happens when we center love, dismantling hatred and oppression.

What reminds us to trust ourselves and each other?

I invite you to explore these questions with friends.

Saturday, October 19, 2024

Everyday Rituals

 Everyday Rituals

As I left my final chemotherapy appointment the nurses at the front desk rang a bell, the patients applauded. I'd participated in this ritual as a patient but was unprepared for how it felt to have the end of this part of my cancer journey celebrated. I was a "real girl" again: allowed to participate in society unworried that my toxicity would rub off on someone (literally, chemo is no joke.) I was released from the drudgery of showing up to be hooked to a machine. And, I, unlike many others, made it to my final appointment, and expected to keep on living. A bell and applause were fitting to mark that transition.

Transitions are great opportunities for ritual. Rituals don't have to be, and shouldn't be, restricted to high holy days and major milestones. They can be mundane, everyday, instead of full of effort, smells, bells, incantations, and large grouops of people. 

A friend wrote out several Mary Oliver poems on pretty paper. She glued the small squares to birch twigs and hung the resulting scrolls next to doorways in her home. Each time we entered, back door, front door, garage door... we were greeted by a small, cheerful, reflection. Another friend wrote mantras of encouragement and pasted them in doorframes. Each time she passed through a doorway in her home she was reminded to connect to her best self, her joy, or what she held holy.

Rituals can be craft projects or a part of boring everyday tasks. They are probably a part of your life already: moments that are made sacred by repetition or meaning or circumstance. 

How many of us remove our shoes as we enter a home? Perhaps a craft project to make the shoe area inviting and more meaningful would make that act of entering more intentional. How many of us sleepwalk through a morning routine? A very small shift of attention and intention would change brushing your teeth and washing your face into a ritual of self care blessing, grounding, centering, and intention-setting for the day.

Another friend would make the sign of the cross every time she heard sirens or passed by a car accident or incident. I've adapted that practice to take a moment of prayer and blessing. If it is not my place to run up and provide first aid, it is always my place to offer care and reset intention within myself. I remind myself that every life is whole, holy and worthy, and that we are loved and lovable. And I rededicate myself to living my life in the light of that conviction.

Altars are a place of ritual as well. They are often centered upon stillness, rather than transtion. Most of us have 1 or more altars, many that we don't recognize as altars until they are pointed out. 

A friend had a ritual of walking through the house before bed. She would neaten and tidy, and touch furniture, but she would also pause at favorite places in the room: the bouquet on the dining table, the pictures above the fireplace, the brochures by the front door (for her business). These were altar spaces that she paused at. 

In my office I work over the internet, moving from appointment to appointment throughout the day. I've set up objects that are meaningful to me on the shelves. I pause before each appointment to notice the wooden labyrinth or the stuffed bear in a witch hat, great great aunt Adelaide's jet hairpiece or the batik of Shiva. This ritual grounds and centers me for the coming appointement.

Our ancestor altar covers the walls of the house, especially the hallway to the bedroom. 

Other rituals may have meaning because they connect to family or community history, or to stories. In summer and fall, my daily trip to the garden is made into a ritual by picking up the wicker basket. I'll put weeds in the basket to carry to the compost. I'll put the harvest in the basket to bring into the house. That basket makes me think of all the old stories of witches (and children) carrying herbs or picnic lunches and it adds meaning to a mundane task.

I truly believe that all places are holy, and a place is made holy by noticing, however, some places it is easier to notice. There's a 1,000 year plus old Carob tree in our yard. I have a ritual of touching her bark or at least pausing to notice her whenever she's in view. It isn't a regular thing. But just standing there taking in her massive trunk, gnarled branches, green leaves and ancient presence is ritual enough to shift my internal landscape.

I had a friend who had a love affair with sunsets. She almost never missed a sunset. Rain or shine she'd be outside, usually on a hill somewhere, during the hour of sunset. Sometimes she invited others to be with her, but she had a standing date with the sun, regardless of others. 

I don't have that level of dedication but did appreciate the years I cared for free range chickens. I had to notice golden hour, that hour before sunset, and make sure to find the chickens, and make sure they were in their coop. If the coop door blew shut and they could not get in, they'd "turn off" at sunset wherever they were... tall grasses, low branches, wherever... and it would be a huge project to find them and make them safe. This ritual of care for other beings helped me connect more deeply with the end of the day.

Acts of care as ritual became a lifesaver for me as I cared for my aging father. Routine was necessary for his comfort. Including a joke, a song, and a hug with the process of transfering from wheelchair to easy chair added love and joy. Participating with him in his youtube physical therapy routine, and setting the intention to rembmer every body is sacred in whatever condition it is in, elevated mundane repetition to sacred ritual.

What everyday rituals are you already engaged in? What routines might be elevated to rituals? What mundane transitions can be made holy? What acts of care can become sacred?

Thursday, September 05, 2024

News from Amy

News from Amy

August is over. Here in southern Portugal days have been close to 100F and the plants are estivating (New word I just learned! Means when plants pause due to heat and lack of water.) I watered the garden daily to keep them alive and now I welcome the cooler days of September when they will turn green and vibrant. Already kids are going back to school in some areas and other families are taking one last vacation. Whether you are obsessively following American politics, pausing through the heated atmosphere, or watering yourself with what you thirst for in hope to be renewed for fall...I invite you to explore your dreams and gifts.

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Sunday, August 18, 2024

Spiritual Recharge

 Spiritual Recharge

Recharge, Rejuvenate, refresh, restore, revive, replenish


We want it, but what is it, and how do we get it? 

Are we batteries? Plants? Old and tired? Broken? Low on Mana or Life-force? Dry and dusty like old cardboard stored in the attic? Sometimes I feel like a peeping baby bird - mouth wide - hoping the right nourishment will arrive.

Whatever image makes sense… we need spiritual sustenance to be poured down our parched throats. But it seems to be so hard to find some, to make time to receive. 

Maybe one distraction is that we have narrow ideas about the RIGHT way to replenish.

It helps me to think about four ways of embracing spirituality. And then to ask questions about what most attracts me. And what most distracts me. Where do I need to lean in harder? Where can I loosen my grip?

Earth Air Fire Water = heart, spirit, head, and body = Relationships, Spaciousness, Knowledge, and Work.


Earth

Body-Serve-Action

Acts of charity and kindness. helping others, purpose and fulfillment, and contribution to the world we dream of. volunteering, donating, offering a kind word or gesture, acting for justice.

I am a spiritual person who is an "Activist" (I express that when I "do")

  • What are some activities that fall into this type of recharge? Cooking a loved one a meal, selecting a gift, witnessing or listening to someone marginalized, Rallies or organizing

  • So many options! All valid!


Air

Head-Learn-Contemplation

Intellect, reason and beliefs, purpose, meaning, direction, personal growth, study, seeker of knowledge, curiosity. 

I am a spiritual person who is a Theologian. (I express that when I "think")

  • What are some activities that fall into this type of recharge? Journaling, taking a class, listening to a spiritual teacher
  • So many options! All valid!


Fire

Spirit-Let Go-Meditation

Ascetic, removing busy-ness and the pressures to do, do, do from our lives. Simplifying. Creating spaciousness and empty space. Being at-one or being Present, esp to Nature - including your own body. leaning into awe and flow. Beauty, Silence, Mystery.

I am a spiritual person who is a Mystic. (I express that when I "be")

  • What are some activities that fall into this type of recharge? Media-fasts, Rest, Yoga Nidra, forest bathing

  • So many options! All valid!


Water

Heart-Connect-Devotion

Relationships, Communal effervescence, laughter, joy, fun, celebration, gathering. emotion, warmth and personal relationship, love, connection. I

I am a spiritual person who is a Member. (I express that when I "feel")

  • What are some activities that fall into this type of recharge? Shared singing or dancing, shared rituals, shared meals, chatting with deity at your altar

  • So many options! All valid!



For me?

Lately I've noticed that if my thoughts are racing and I can't get to sleep - it is time for some spiritual refreshment. This month that looks like Yoga Nidra practice. What is working about that for me is the ways it is like meditation practice. I bring my mind to the present. No catastrophizing (or planning for) the future. No rehashing and regreting the past. Just being here, now. It only takes 20 minutes. But the difference for me is profound! I didn't notice the difference for a couple weeks, but then, I was startled to realize that I was breathing deeper, my mind was calm, my muscles were loose, and I fell asleep soon after going to bed. I remember this feeling from when I was 10 years old and camping in our favorite spot in the mountains. Being fully in the present moment!


That's me this month. I don't know what will be the right thing for me next month. As it turns out, I keep changing. Living for 60 years means I have a lot of experiences, but it doesn't mean I stop growing, changing, and having new experiences!


So, What's Next?

For these four ways of recharging, what most attracts you? And what most distracts you? Where do you need to lean in harder? Where can you loosen your grip?

What external and internal factors influence the amount of time you have or take for recharging? If you had more time for recharging, what would you do? 

What is preventing you from taking that time?

Monday, April 29, 2024

Deities in April-What energies of divinity do you claim or claim you?

What energies of divinity do you claim or claim you?

There’s so many deities!

Mother Earth, often called Gaia, is often called upon this time of year as many people celebrate earth day.

April is full of celebrations of deities.

April 7-8 is the Greek feast of Artemis.

April 15 is the Egyptian feast of Bast.

APR. 15-17: Feasts of the Seas –
  • Honoring Yoruban God-Goddess as Olokun-Yemaya and
  • Old Greek Okeanos-Tethys.

April 22: Festivals to honor deities:

  • Babylonian Festival of Isthar,
  • Japanese Feast of the Divine Couple and
  • Norse Odin’s Day

APR. 23: Festival of the Greenman—honoring the God of the Forest and vegetation.

APR. 25: Has a few Spring Festivals –
  • In Britannia, dedicated to Herne, Pan, the Horned God. –
  • and further south, the Roman Robligalia dedicated to the Corn Mother (Ceres or Demeter) and Harvest.

Deities, or Energies

Whether you relate to deity as the ground of being, archetypes, parts of self, discrete beings you can interact with, nature spirits, the designer at the beginning of time, emanations from the one divine, a spiritual essence that is in everything, all of the above, none of the above, or something else…

how do you choose which idea or ideas to include in your spiritual practice? What symbols of divinity or the sacred do you put on your altar? Who do you pray to or with, Who do you listen to? Who do you call yours? What energies do you look for within yourself? Or invite to travel with you?

Grew up with? I know pagans who grew up with God, Jesus and the holy spirit who let go of the guy in the sky, but keep the humble teacher and friend.

Your ancestors? I know pagans who have done extensive research to find out who their ancestors revered. Or who have adopted the ancestral deities of their community or chosen family. I know Pagans who cannot trace their family heritage but want to celebrate deities who are from a time their race was in revered history, such of Black Folks claiming deities from Kemetism, the religion of ancient Egypt.

The place where you live? I know pagans who have done research into the deities who were understood to care for or be from the places where they currently live. Maybe the Corn Mother, if you are in Algonquin lands. Or Cernunnos if you are in the British isles.

A deity who you feel you’ve had an experience where they asked you to be theirs? I know pagans who have done reading or visited other’s cultural traditions and became ‘claimed’ by a deity… Perhaps Brigit from celtic culture or Dionysus from Hellenic/Greek culture, or Yemaya from the Yoruba or Santeria traditions.

Divine Energies

Maybe the idea of named deity from a particular culture or place isn’t making sense for you…

Maybe it is “kindness” or “love” or some other concept that is of ultimate meaning for you?

Maybe it is the energy of a plant or animal or body of water or land feature… Maybe it is something that is in EVERYTHING…

Whatever it is. It is good to notice what makes sense and works for YOU!

Tuesday, March 05, 2024

War and Peace

 

To fight tooth and nail

To bite the bullet

In the trenches

To go over the top

At loggerheads

To hit the target

A battle of nerves

To cross swords

Have dodged a bullet

Don't shoot the messenger

To drop a bombshell

Great guns

Fight fire with fire

Gun shy

She's a riot

Knight in shining armor

In your sights

Long shot

A loose cannon

On guard

Pull the trigger

Offer an olive branch

Hold your peace

Make peace

A meeting of minds

At peace with the world

Offering grace

Peace and quiet

Leave in peace

Peace of mind

Peace and quiet

Peace

Sunday, December 03, 2023

I invite you to connect with elements, forces and presences that feel good to you. Those which you can in good conscience invite into sacred accompaniment with you for our time together. I’ll make some suggestions and leave the process open to what works for you. 

Let us start by becoming aware of this self we call me or “I”. Notice your breath, your heartbeat, the sensations of skin, guts, muscles. Notice the heat that is created by your presence in the world. Notice the thoughts arising in the mind, and allow those thoughts to pass in and out of awareness. 


We are a network of community gathered here together through the magic of technology. This magical network comes into being for this hour and then disperses when we stop the electronic connection, but it does not ever cease to be even as it changes form. 


In this moment, let us call in the elements, forces or presences to remind us that this is sacred connection and community.


Calling on the powers of earth, soil, mountain and seed. What is near you that represents this for you. Is there a park or landmark? Orient your awareness to that place or thing. Bring the power into your whole self, into your body.


Calling on the powers of air, thought, wind and flight. What is near you that represents this for you? Is there an airport, university, or landmark? Orient your awareness to that place or thing. Bring the power into your whole self, into your mind.


Calling on the powers of fire, spirit, creativity, and fierceness. What is near you that represents this for you? Is there a place of justice, sunrise, or music? Orient your awareness to that place or thing. Bring the power into your whole self, into your nervous system or soul.


Calling on the powers of water, connection, and emotion. What is near you that represents this for you? Is there a family home-base, a hospital, a lake or ocean? Orient your awareness to that place or thing. Bring the power into your whole self, into your heart.


Calling on the power of the center, the web, the diverse complexity and the all. What is near you that represents this for you? Is it the stars or the core of the earth or your own spine?Orient your awareness to that place or thing. Bring the power into your whole self.


We are between the worlds beyond the bounds of space and time where birth and death night and day joy and sorrow meet as one.


Look around this place where you are and notice 5 things you can see, 4 things you can touch, 3 things you can hear, and one thing you can smell and/or taste. Take another deep breath. Welcome back!



Wednesday, July 26, 2023

Cherry Hill Seminary SpiDir Certification Starting Spring '24

Spiritual Direction Certification Program


Do people seek you out for spiritual companionship and support? Or are you already a spiritual care provider, looking to expand what you offer? 

Honor your calling by becoming credentialed in spiritual direction work at Cherry Hill Seminary. 

  • 2-year program 

  • affordable

  • cohort based virtual community 

  • grounded in earth-relating traditions 

  • diverse teachers bring Pagan, Indigenous, Catholic, Sufi, Animist, neuro-diverse, gender-fabulous, and more wisdom

Applications accepted on a rolling basis until a cohort is formed: Expected start is March 2024.

You are whole, holy, and good. Deepen and grow as a human, expand and clarify your faith formation, and level up as a spiritual care provider.

Check in directly with Amy by finding time at: https://www.amybeltaine.info/Home/schedule


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Monday, July 10, 2023

Spiritual Direction Supervision: Starting September


  • Global Majority and LGBTQIA+ Affirming

  • Semi-monthly option

  • Lucy Abbot Tucker, Urban Spirituality, and Earth-based trained

  • 12 years experience 

Starting September!

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U,U, & UU History

 

Discover the Broad Scope of Unitarian, Universalist, and Unitarian Universalist history and key stories from that history.

  • Fall session

  • Semi-intensive

  • All online

Designed to correlate with the Unitarian Universalist Association’s Ministerial Fellowship competencies 6 and 7. Includes 8 required hours for buddy/small group work outside of class.

7 course meetings, over 4-7 weeks, will be held on Tuesday/Wednesday evenings, 4-6:00 PM ET starting mid-September. Specific dates TBD with students and instructor, Rev. Amy Beltaine.

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Thursday, October 21, 2021

Are You A Good Witch?

"You claim an alignment of neutral good. Yet you went against your nature!"


Stirge by Ir'revrykal  CC3.0

When memories insist on replaying, it is usually because there is a message there. The tape on eternal repeat in my mind is of a Dungeons and Dragons encounter many years ago.

Gnome illusionist, Orma Garee (that's me) and her intrepid companions are exploring a ruined Abbey. Gingerly carrying her torch across the rubble-filled room, Orma opens a door into what must once have been the sanctuary. Blinking in the sunlight streaming through the broken roof covered with vines, she notices a small group of people huddled together staring upward. Suddenly they start screaming as ugly bloated birds, giant mosquitoes really, come arrowing toward them. Stirges! Shudder! Orma slams the door closed. Time stops. Orma's goddess shimmers into being. The awesome Amberra. The angry goddess slams her staff into the ground and says, "Orma! You serve a deity of compassion. You claim an alignment of neutral good. Yet you went against your nature and your deity when you closed the door on those suffering people! You have lost my favor. I will not answer any calls for help, nor will you be able to channel divinity for your spells, until I know you have repented! DO BETTER!" and Kaboom! She disappears. End of memory.

Wouldn't it be helpful for us all if our deity appeared before us instantly the moment we broke covenant with them. Wouldn't it be nice to get a clear and direct memo when we broke faith, missed the mark, or strayed from "the path." There is something so appealing about that clarity! Unlike in the D&D world, in the real world I don't get to have one-on-one chats with my deity. My deity speaks to me, if you can call it that, through the wind in the trees, the events in my life, and the still small voice whispering within.

Photo used with permission by @OregonGirlRebecca


I spent some years jealous that other people had a straightforward language and image for a socially accepted God. As a Spiritual Director I have colleagues from many spiritual paths and many of them have personal conversations with the divine-within that they refer to as Jesus or God. That's where they go for insight when they have moral questions. 

Now, I have made peace with the fact that my higher good speaks to me through less easily described means.

So what is the message of this persistent memory? I suspect that I know what my deity or higher power or greatest good or whatever I hold holy is asking of me. I must not shut the door on people who are in danger. But when I do, I have an opportunity to do better. We all have the opportunity to repent, to forgive ourselves and each other and to begin again. In the real, we are facing blood-sucking dangers: real dangers to real people.

If you did not vote in the last election: forgive yourself, and begin again. If you did not realize how pervasive racism was in our culture until you saw it unleashed and naked on TV: forgive yourself and begin again. If you are inclined to stopper your ears because it is hard to hear the pain and anger of those who who are experiencing a heightened sense of danger. Forgive yourself and begin again. If your heart has broken after learning about people who have been set on fire, beaten up, been attacked, or had their places of worship attacked... but you didn't reach out in any way: forgive yourself and begin again.



Image Source: iStock

I can hear the voice of my D&D deity in my mind. "Do better!" This is how the sacred speaks to me - poetry, imagery, story, and memory. 

Message received.

In that D&D game I called for my companions to come help me. I opened the door again. Together, we defended the frightened people from the bloodsucking stirge. I was forgiven, and I began again. Let's all attend to the messages of our deities, and then work together to protect those who need to be protected. Let us fight off the death-dealing, blood-sucking stirges of our reality.