How Is Spiritual Direction Like Grape-Nuts?

Grape-Nuts contains neither grapes nor nuts. And spiritual direction is neither particularly spiritual… nor directive.

I know. It sounds like a riddle. Let's unpack it.

"Spirit" often gets treated as something extraordinary. Mystical. Separate from the mess and mundanity of actual life. But the work of spiritual companioning is the opposite: it's the practice of paying close attention to the ordinary. The real. The daily. What do you love? What do you grieve? What sparks something alive in you, and what invites you to act? How are you doing this life… with authenticity, with integrity, with anything resembling sustainability?

And "direction"? There isn't any that you don't bring yourself. Your companion isn't there to tell you what to think or where to go. They're there to hold the torch while you tinker with the inner bits… the hard-to-grab-hold-of parts of your life that don't fit neatly into words yet. You do the tinkering. They hold the light. You find your direction. They check in to be sure you choose where you go, based on your own sacred, loving, wholeness.

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Right now, you can experience spiritual companioning for free.

Students in the Cherry Hill Seminary Spiritual Direction Certification Program are looking for practice partners: people willing to receive free, confidential sessions with a trained, supervised practitioner. These are serious students doing serious work. They're learning to accompany people navigating earth-based, spiritually-independent, and multi-religious spiritual paths. And they need people like you to complete their training.

It costs you nothing. It might offer you more than you expect. 9 Appointments between now and February 2026 over Zoom.

Learn more about how Praxis works → https://abeltaine.blogspot.com/2025/01/embark-on-spiritual-journey-with-free.html 

Meet the students and schedule a informational session → https://abeltaine.blogspot.com/2026/03/is-your-care-squad-complete-for.html

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