Sunday, September 28, 2025

Heart-Centered, Anti-Capitalist (or Post-Capitalist), Consent-Based Business Coaches

Heart-Centered, Anti-Capitalist (or Post-Capitalist), Consent-Based Business Coaches

Especially for Healers, Therapists, Spiritual Companions, and One-on-One Helpers

These coaches and teachers support values-aligned work with an emphasis on relationship, sustainability, and justice. Many are rooted in trauma-informed practice, spiritual depth, and anti-oppression frameworks.



(In no particular order)

1. Tad Hargrave

  • Focus: Marketing for people who hate marketing, especially healers and changemakers.
  • Style: Playful, disarming, rooted in generosity and authenticity.
  • Site: https://marketingforhippies.com
  • Sample offerings: tools like “point of view marketing” and “niching spiral” to help people find their way without manipulation.

2. Mark Silver

  • Focus: Integrating business with spiritual practice, grounded in Sufi wisdom.
  • Style: Gentle, deeply spiritual, relational, teaching with and about compassion and ethics.
  • Site: https://www.heartofbusiness.com
  • Book: The Heart of Business
  • Offerings: Community, courses and mentoring for spiritually rooted entrepreneurs; supports connection to the Divine in business.

3. Bear Hebert

  • Focus: Anti-capitalist business coaching, liberatory practices, values-aligned business models.
  • Style: Direct, queer-inclusive, trauma-informed, rooted in collective care.
  • Site: https://www.bearcoaches.com/
  • Sample Offering: “No Starving Artists” and “Freely: Anti-Capitalist Business Coaching.”

4. Jenny Blake

  • Focus: Systems, ease, and ethical scaling of meaningful work.
  • Style: Gentle, strategic, focused on burnout prevention and intuitive alignment.
  • Site: https://itsfreetime.com/ or https://www.pivotmethod.com
  • Books: Pivot: The Only Move That Matters Is Your Next One and Free Time: Lose the Busywork, Love Your Business.
  • Note: Not explicitly anti-capitalist but aligned with heart-centered, non-exploitative practices.

5. Kelly Diels

  • Focus: Feminist marketing, cultural critique, ethical branding.
  • Style: Fierce, anti-patriarchal, focused on not replicating oppressive systems.
  • Site: https://kellydiels.com
  • Approach: Offers alternatives to exploitative marketing models like the “Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand.”

6. Rachael Kay Albers

  • Focus: Anti-capitalist branding, media literacy, social justice.
  • Style: Satirical, sharp, rooted in liberation and systems change.
  • Site: https://rachaelkayalbers.com
  • Project: “Awkward Marketing” — insightful and hilarious commentary on toxic marketing practices.

7. Laura Mae Northrup

  • Focus: Trauma-informed care, ethical healing relationships, and spiritual integrity in helping professions.
  • Style: Deeply somatic, psycho-spiritual, ethics-rooted.
  • Site: https://www.lauramaenorthrup.com
  • Book: Radical Healership: How to Build a Values-Driven Healing Practice in a Profit-Driven World — essential reading for one-on-one helpers.
  • Note: Not a business coach per se, but deeply instructive about ethical practice in capitalistic systems.

8. Holly Truhlar

  • Focus: Community-based care, collective trauma, and grief-informed organizing.
  • Style: Poetic, grief-honoring, anti-capitalist and relational.
  • Site: https://www.hollytruhlar.com
  • Offerings: Supports coaches, therapists, and organizers doing grief and justice work outside dominant paradigms.

9. Emily Anne Brant

  • Focus: centers Indigenous identity & decolonial frameworks. Personal develpment and decolonization.
  • Style: integrating anti-racism, Indigenous ways of knowing, ethics, inclusive.
  • Site: https://www.emilyannebrant.com/
  • Offerings: Decolonize your Biz consulting, Decolonized Coach Community, Free guides.

I have personally worked with Mark Silver and love being a part of his community. I've received personal recommendations for Tad Hargrace. If you recommend someone, let me know!

Beloved, you are whole, holy, and worthy,

Rev. Amy

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Sunday, September 21, 2025

Fall Equinox: Abundance, Gratitude, and Giving in Times of Trouble

Fall Equinox: Abundance, Gratitude, and Giving in Times of Trouble

At the Autumn Equinox, the Earth pauses. Day and night meet as equals, and for a brief moment, balance reigns. This turning point in the year invites us to do the same: to pause, reflect, and ask ourselves what we've gathered and what we're ready to give.

And I know that for many of us, finding balance, or even harmony, feels particularly challenging right now. The world feels heavy with uncertainty and fear. You may be wondering how to think about abundance and offering when your own reserves are depleted, when the news leaves you anxious, when caring for others has left you running on empty.

And yet, Fall Equinox is the season of harvest, not just of crops, but of experiences, lessons, and transformations. It's a time to honor abundance and to consider how that abundance might overflow into the lives of others. Sometimes we've harvested resilience, the ability to keep showing up, or simply having survived. These too are offerings.

What have you cultivated this year, emotionally, spiritually, creatively, that is now ripe for sharing?

This reflection is not about productivity or achievement. It's about presence. In a world that demands speed and performance, presence is radical. In times of chaos, presence becomes even more radical and necessary. It's about noticing what has grown in the quiet corners of your life. It might feel like weeds. It might not feel like ripening grain. Maybe it's a deeper sense of compassion. Maybe it's a renewed connection to nature. Maybe it's a story you've carried that's ready to be told. Whatever it is, this is the moment to hold it up and ask: What do I offer back to my community, to the Earth, to the future?

We often think of giving as an act of generosity, but it's also an act of trust. To offer something of ourselves is to believe that it might matter. And it does. Even the smallest offering: a kind word, a moment of listening, a gesture of care, can ripple outward in ways we may never see.

As you reflect, consider the balance, the harmony in your own life. Have you made space for both action and rest? For both giving and receiving? For both joy and sorrow? Balance is not a static state: it's a dance. Harmony requires attention, adjustment, and sometimes surrender. The equinox reminds us that this kind of balance is possible, even if fleeting. It's something to turn toward, not something to perfect.

Think back over the past year. What have you been harvesting? What moments stand out as meaningful, transformative, or tender? These are the fruits of your inner garden, worthy of celebration.

Now ask yourself: What of this am I ready to share? What part of your harvest is meant not just for you, but for others? This could be a skill, a story, a practice, or simply your presence. It could be something tangible or something intangible. The important thing is that it comes from a place of authenticity and your own abundance.

Sometimes offering the overflow means letting go. Just as trees release their leaves, we too are invited to release what no longer serves us. What habits, fears, or narratives are you ready to plow under? Maybe releasing the compulsion to recite all the world's troubles: that's a form of letting go that creates space for healing action. What can be composted into wisdom, clarity, or space for new growth?

Letting go is not always easy. It can feel like loss. But it's also a gift. It creates space for what's next. It honors the cycle of life, where endings make way for beginnings. In this season, letting go is an offering in itself.

As you sit with these questions, allow yourself to feel into them. Let them be seeds planted in the soil of your awareness. They may sprout now or later, slowly or suddenly. Trust the timing.

Here are some questions:

What spiritual gift or soul-legacy do I feel ready to offer?

What have I harvested this year, emotionally, spiritually, creatively?

How do I share my abundance with others?

You don't need to have all the answers. You don't even really need to have one answer. You only need to be willing to ask, to listen, to notice.

I'm also inviting you to honor the gifts of others. Just as you consider your own offerings, recognize what others have shared with you: a friend's support, a stranger's kindness, a teacher's wisdom, a moment of beauty in nature. These are part of the harvest too.

Gratitude is another form of offering. When we express thanks, we affirm the value of what we've received. We complete the circle. We become part of the flow.

And if you feel like you have little to offer right now, know that your presence is enough. Your willingness to reflect is enough. There is no minimum requirement for being part of the harvest. You belong here.

As we move deeper into autumn, let this reflection sit with you. Let it guide your choices, your interactions, your celebrations. Let it remind you that you are part of a larger rhythm: a rhythm of gathering, giving, releasing, and renewing.

You are the harvest. You are the offering. You are the overflow.

Blessed be this season of balance. Blessed be the gifts you carry. Blessed be the ways you choose to share them.

Mount Hood sunset, photo by Amy Beltaine

Rooted in Harvest, Open to Overflow

A Guided Meditation for Fall Equinox, 2025

Everything offered in this grounding is an invitation. Please engage in whatever way feels right to you. You are the sacred steward of your own experience:

Let's begin by arriving. Here. Now. With whatever this moment brings.

Feel the contact between your body and what holds you: the floor beneath your feet, the chair beneath your hips, the air brushing your skin.

If your body feels distant today, bring awareness to your surroundings: the quality of light, the shapes of shadow, the sounds of breath or birdsong or silence.

Now, shift your attention to the quiet ways your body is alive. Notice your heartbeat's rhythm, its persistence. Feel the breath moving in and out as presence itself. Sense the weight of your limbs, the warmth of your skin, the stillness or stirrings within.

Let your awareness settle there. You are already enough. You are already here.

Let yourself be held: by gravity, by the Earth, by the moment. Let yourself be rooted: like a tree in late summer, drawing strength from deep soil, preparing to release what has fulfilled its purpose.

Now, gently notice what's present in your body. Warmth or coolness. Tension or ease. Emotion or emptiness. Simply offer it your attention.

If anything feels overwhelming, return to your anchor: the breath, the heartbeat, the ground beneath you.

The now is enough.

In this grounded presence, I invite a question: What have you gathered this year that is ready to be shared? What you've grown through living. What you've learned through experience.

Perhaps it's wisdom earned through difficulty. Perhaps it's a joy that surprised you. Perhaps it's a story, a skill, a truth, a tenderness.

Let it rise gently in your awareness. Simply notice what wants to be offered.

Now, another question: What are you ready to release? What has served its purpose? What can be composted into wisdom?

Maybe it's a habit, a fear, a role, a story you've outgrown. Let it fall like a leaf in autumn: returned to the Earth with gratitude.

You are part of the cycle. You are part of the harvest. You are part of the offering.

Feel the balance: between holding and releasing, between gathering and giving, between being and becoming.

You are woven into the season. You are the season. You are the turning. You are the overflow.

Come back now to this moment. To the sensation of your feet or seat. To your breath. To your body. To this place. To this now.

You are here. You are rooted. You are enough.

When you're ready, begin to reawaken gently. Wiggle your fingers. Roll your shoulders. Notice the space around you. Take in a sound, a color, a presence.

Let this grounded awareness guide you.

Blessed be.


Beloved, you are whole, holy, and worthy,

Rev. Amy


This Spiritual Feast series is ©2025 Amy Beltaine, all rights reserved. You may freely reprint any blog post, website, or print resource. Simply include the following attribution, and if you print online, make the link at the end live.

Article ©2025 Amy Beltaine, all rights reserved. Reprinted with permission. This article and hundreds of others, along with other free resources are available at www.AmyBeltaine.info

Healers, Heal Thyselves: Finding Ground in Groundless Times

Healers, Heal Thyselves: Finding Ground in Groundless Times

I started writing this blog post with a litany of all the things happening in the world that scare me and break my heart. Then I stopped. We've all recited that list a thousand times already, as though naming the terrors helps us find the answer to "what should I do." But here's what I'm learning: reciting the horrors isn't the path forward. Stopping the perseverating is.

The news comes fast and furious these days: a relentless stream that leaves even those of us living in peaceful places feeling unmoored. Here in beautiful Portugal, far from the direct chaos, I found myself exclaiming "Oh crap! I almost forgot my appointment!" three times in one week. My spouse noticed something was off. Then I completely miscalculated a time zone difference for the first time in five years.

Even at this distance, my nervous system is dysregulated. And here's the thing: my job is to co-regulate. I'm supposed to provide a peaceful, safer space where people can breathe easier, think easier, and feel easier so they can reclaim their rootedness, their alignment with love, their sense of aliveness.

If you're a care provider, whether you're a spiritual companion, therapist, minister, massage therapist, bartender, or house cleaner, you know exactly what I mean. We show up to help others find their center while our own ground feels like it's shifting beneath our feet.

The Oxygen Mask Principle

You know the airplane safety instruction: put on your own oxygen mask first before helping others. It's not selfish: it's essential. When the world feels like it's tilting off its axis, those of us in caring professions need to double down on our own grounding practices.

How do we continue to hug children, cook good meals, notice the sun and stars and breezes and trees? How do we show up wholeheartedly for our day-to-day tasks when everything feels urgent and uncertain?

The answer isn't to push through or tough it out. The answer is to tend to ourselves with the same compassion we offer others.

What Feeds Your Soul?

Take a moment right now. Ask yourself: What do I do to care for my soul? Your heart? Your wholeness?

Whatever comes to mind: do more of that.

Maybe it's listening to activists who've been in this struggle for decades, who know strategy and can guide you toward effective action. Maybe it's diving deep into wisdom teachings: Pema Chödrön speaking about living with fear, or whatever spiritual resources anchor you.

Maybe it's simpler: turning off the TV and cell phone and sitting under a tree for an afternoon. Diving into the water at your municipal pool. Scheduling an extra spiritual direction appointment. Singing at the top of your lungs. Playing with a cat.


"Punkin", an orange cat crouched in leaves, photo by Hawthorne Post

Permission to Turn Toward Sustenance

We live in a culture that glorifies the helper who gives until empty, but that's not sustainable, and it's not actually helpful. When we're running on fumes, we can't offer the presence others need.

So here's your permission slip: Turn toward whatever sustains you. Not as an indulgence, but as a necessity. Not just for yourself, but for your family, for the people you care for.

And here's something crucial: many people don't have access to the things that help them ground and heal. We can't expect folks to bootstrap their self-care when they're struggling just to survive. If you're one of those people, it's more than okay to ask for help. Reaching out isn't weakness: it's wisdom.

The world needs care providers who are grounded, resourced, and present. It needs

 healers who have done their own healing work, who continue to do it daily.

The Radical Act of Self-Care

In times of chaos, caring for ourselves becomes a radical act of resistance. When we stay connected to beauty... to sunlight filtering through leaves, to the taste of a good meal, to the comfort of an embrace... we're maintaining our humanity in the face of forces that would strip it away.

When we tend to our own nervous systems, we create ripples of calm in an anxious world. Every time we choose presence over panic, groundedness over reactivity, we're offering a gift not just to ourselves but to everyone whose life we touch.

So healers, heal thyselves. The world needs you: whole, grounded, and fully alive.

Beloved, you are whole, holy and worthy,

Rev Amy Beltaine


This Justice and Spirituality series is ©2025 Amy Beltaine, all rights reserved. You may freely reprint any blog post, website, or print resource. Simply include the following attribution, and if you print online, make the link at the end live.

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Monday, September 15, 2025

The Third Chair: Sacred Presence in Spiritual Companionship

The Third Chair: Sacred Presence in Spiritual Companionship

In spiritual direction, many companions speak of a “third chair” in the room—the unseen presence of the Sacred. This metaphor reminds us that sessions involve more than two human beings. Whether we name it as Spirit, God, the Divine, Mystery, Source, or Meaning, the “third chair” symbolizes the sacred current we invite into the space.

But what if there are more than three chairs? What if each person’s relationship with the Sacred—or their refusal of that language—deserves a seat of its own?

Students in the Spiritual Direction Certification program, where I teach, have explored this beautifully: some speak of a companion’s divine and an explorer’s divine—already making four chairs. Others remind us that energy may flow not as a seated figure at all, but as a field encompassing both seeker and companion. And animists, atheists, and polytheists offer yet more expansive imagery. The point is not to settle on one image, but to recognize that spiritual companionship is never a conversation of just two.


Three Heart-shaped chairs, by LuxXeon CC3.0

Naming Our Own Theology

One student put it plainly: before guiding others, we benefit from knowing our own theology. Grappling with “what we believe” lowers anxiety, gives us a steady foundation, and clarifies our fit with particular seekers. Our theology does not need to inform theirs, but knowing it helps us listen with integrity and humility.

Whose Sacred Is in the Room?

Sometimes the Sacred presence is experienced as shared—a single third chair for both companion and explorer. Other times, each brings their own relationship with Spirit or Source, making four chairs (or more). A polytheist might picture a gathering of deities; an atheist may see “what is meaningful” taking a seat; an animist may envision trees, stones, and ancestors joining.

An agnostic companion might hold space for 'the unknown mystery'; a Buddhist practitioner may sense interdependence itself as sacred presence; those from Indigenous traditions might acknowledge the land, ancestors, and spirits of place.

The metaphor stretches, but its heart remains: the sacred presence(s) invited into session deserve attention.


Mini Zen Garden, Photo by ROMAN ODINTSOV

Beyond the Chair

Not everyone relates to “chairs.” Some sense Spirit more as energy swirling about the room, as warmth, nudges, or sudden insights. A medical intuitive describes “synchronizing” with sacred energy, so the field encompasses all who are present. This echoes Thomas Merton’s reminder: “We discover an older unity … we are already one.”

For some, a physical object helps—a ceramic chair on the altar, a stone or candle beside the desk, a symbol of the divine on a companion’s computer table. For others, silence itself becomes the container where Spirit is noticed.

Promptings and Discernment

Spiritual companions sometimes experience what feels like “channeling” the Sacred: a phrase, question, or insight arises with a quality different from ordinary conversation. The tone may feel spacious, grounded, or infused with love. Other impulses—our opinions, reactivity, need to fix, or even friendly chatter—have a different texture.

Here, the third chair (or its equivalents) can serve as a tuning device. The presence of a candle, stone, or empty chair reminds us to pause and notice: what is the source of this nudge? Does it feel like a sacred prompting, or something else? Learning to sense the difference is part of the art of spiritual companionship.


Crow in Chair by Louise LeGresley CC2.0

Try It

  • Place a symbolic “third chair” in your space (a chair, a candle, a stone). Before each session, acknowledge the Sacred presence it represents.

  • If you don’t resonate with the chair metaphor, try sensing the energy field around you and your seeker. How might Spirit be present there?

  • If physical objects don't work for you, try setting an intention, creating a mental space, or using sound/music to acknowledge sacred presence.

  • After a session, reflect: When did you feel you were speaking from Sacred prompting? When were you offering personal opinion, reactivity, or friendly conversation? How could you tell?


For Further Reading

The Heart of Spiritual Direction – Introduces the foundations of spiritual direction, highlighting presence, sacred listening, and the call to honor seekers as whole and holy.
https://abeltaine.blogspot.com/2025/02/the-heart-of-spiritual-direction.html

Ethical Spiritual Tending: A Foundation of Trust and Integrity – Explores how sacred listening, ethical guidelines, and mutual agreements support trust and autonomy.
https://abeltaine.blogspot.com/2025/02/ethical-spiritual-tending-foundation-of.html

Decolonizing Spiritual Direction: Honoring Lineage, Resisting Appropriation – Examines how spiritual direction can resist colonial patterns and cultural appropriation, encouraging companions to honor source traditions and uplift marginalized voices.
https://abeltaine.blogspot.com/2025/03/decolonizing-spiritual-direction.html

Three Chairs Spiritual Direction – Introduces the original “third chair” concept.
http://www.threechairsspiritualdirection.com/why-three-chairs.html

SDI: The Importance of Taking Off Your Hat – A reflection on humility, presence, and the sacred in companionship.
https://www.sdicompanions.org/the-importance-of-taking-off-your-hat-while-offering-spiritual-companionship/

Beloved, you are whole, holy, and worthy,
Rev. Amy
Companioning soul-weary change-makers becoming rooted, aligned, and alive again.

Saturday, September 13, 2025

Where Do You Go for Soul Counsel?

 Where Do You Go for Soul Counsel?

Quick question: where do you go when your heart needs guidance — not your career or your relationships, but your actual soul? When the work of justice feels too heavy to carry alone?

Most of us have this figured out for everything else. Therapists for our minds. Doctors for our bodies. Financial advisors for our money. Personal trainers for our fitness goals. But when our spirits need tending? When we're wrestling with questions that keep us awake under the moon's light?

  • Am I living my purpose?
  • How do I stay rooted when the world feels chaotic?
  • When my values conflict with tactics, how do I discern right action?
  • What does the Sacred ask of me in this moment?

We're often left fumbling in the dark.


Sunset, Sandpiper Beach, Oregon, Photo by Hawthorne Post

The Three Wells of Wisdom

Spiritual companioning creates space to draw from all three wells of wisdom:

  • Moon wisdom — the celestial knowledge of sacred teachings, ancient practices, and institutional wisdom that has guided seekers for millennia.
  • Forest wisdom — the interconnected knowing that emerges from community, relationship, and our recognition that we don't walk this path alone.
  • Bone wisdom — the deep inner knowing that lives in your body, your intuition, the truth that no institution can give you because it's already planted in your bones.

This is where justice makers come when activism burns them out but the calling remains. Where earth tenders seek discernment about their next right action. Where League of Women Voters organizers and  ministers and Pagans and all kinds of spiritual care providers learn to trust the deeper knowing that emerges when all three sources of wisdom are honored.

Because when you're connected to your source of meaning — really connected — you have strength and resources for the long work ahead that you simply can't access any other way.

Sacred Questions Need Sacred Space

Spirit tending isn't therapy — though it can be healing. It isn't advice-giving — though clarity often emerges. It isn't religious instruction — though it honors the sacred however you understand it.

It's companion work for the deep questions. The ones that matter most. The ones that shape how you show up in a world that desperately needs your gifts.

When the headlines break your heart daily, where do you go to tend that grief and find strength to continue? When you feel called to something but aren't sure what, who walks alongside you in the discernment? When your spiritual practice feels stale or your activism feels hollow, where do you go to reconnect with the fire that first lit your path?

Sacred questions need sacred space. And sacred space is what the work of spiritual direction provides.

Beloved, you are whole, holy, and worthy,
Rev. Amy

Companioning soul-weary change-makers becoming rooted, aligned, and alive again.